Welcome — I’m Julie
I’m a wife, a mom of three, and our youngest—Adilynn—is a bright, energetic 5-year-old on the Autism Spectrum. I work full-time from home, and most days my world revolves around keeping up with her incredible energy. Some days feel overwhelming, and other days we absolutely thrive—but every day is meaningful.
Over the past five years, I’ve learned to celebrate small milestones while also navigating seasons of stress, tears, and self-doubt. I’ve questioned what kind of parent I was and whether I was doing enough—or doing it right. To be honest, much of that time felt heavy and overwhelming.
Before you judge me, know this: I wouldn’t change this life for the world. But I was unprepared. I was uneducated about autism and how deeply it can impact daily life. Before I learned to understand and expect the diagnosis, I often felt like I was failing.
The screaming bath times during hair washes.
The picky eating—no matter what I cooked, it was never quite right.
The emotional roller coaster at home and at school.
It was exhausting.
But this blog isn’t about what autism has taken from our family. It’s about what it has given us.
Adilynn has the biggest heart and the best hugs. Her smile can light up an entire room. She is deeply compassionate and loves her mama fiercely. She worries about me getting sick or going away, makes homemade cards just because, wants to dance to Brown Eyed Girl, and can line up baby dolls like nobody’s business. Her imagination is extraordinary.
Those small feet running through our home?
They are the sound of something incredibly beautiful.
I’m often told that self-care is vital to survival as a mom, and I know that’s true. Yet I’m guilty of pouring myself into everyone else and leaving little behind for myself. I’ve done it for so long that I sometimes wonder if I even have personal interests anymore.
But in the rare pockets of spare time I find, I turn to something that brings me peace—creating cozy spaces within our home. Designing calm, inviting corners grounds me. Farmhouse-style design, in particular, reminds me of simpler days and slower moments. I love surrounding my family with warmth, comfort, and a sense of calm.
This space is where I’ll share our journey—the challenges, the victories, and the deeply rewarding moments of raising an autistic child—alongside my favorite design tips, cozy finds, and the small things that make our house feel like home.
The days can be long. Sometimes they’re hard.
But they are filled with love, purpose, and moments worth celebrating.
I’m so glad you’re here.
— Julie